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Dad Visit! Whaa HOoo!!!

I am so excited to have the opportunity to visit dad and be welcomed where he is at! I haven't gotten much time with dad since before 2007, I am so lucky and so fortunate to have this time. A week... can I get more? He is in a safe space; I can find a safe space near him. I miss him so much, and I hate the hate that has kept him away.  I'll be able to see him, talk to him freely and he will be safe from all forms of abuse. I wish the conditions were better, but I am so looking forward to this visit with him so much.  I know everyone's Dad is their Hero, but my dad really is a hero. 

Choose your partner wisely

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If it's not going well, talk about it.  If it's not changing, leave. There's no reason to live in Misery -That's a movie; not a place to stay...    You do NOT have to have your feelings validated by a therapist for them to be important enough to make life changing decisions! Trust your gut! DO NOT ACCEPT MISTREATMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU COULDN'T ASSERT YOUR BOUNDARIES. DO NOT COMPROMISE SELF-RESPECT.